How Ladies Appreciate Eroticism Through Sex Stories7547240
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian ladies masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often related with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so a lot female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between ladies.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body parts, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica because I envision myself on the receiving finish of fellatio or anal sex, for instance.
Female erotica often includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do ladies associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity with out anybody becoming forced into anything against their will (not usually but mostly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so much out there I have study my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was fairly relieved when I ultimately tired of the by no means-ending pain. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Maybe this explains why I often struggle to find sex stories for ladies that can help with orgasm. I have to wonder although... what else does anyone study this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly couple of women relate to her findings. This is because most ladies approach sex via their relationship with their lover. They have no idea of enjoying their personal sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.