How Women Appreciate Eroticism Through Sex Stories1174302
Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not discover the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian ladies masturbate and read erotica. In reality, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are frequently related with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so a lot female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between women.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual ladies but I am straight. I like male physique components, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica because I envision myself on the receiving end of fellatio or anal sex, for instance.
Female erotica often includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do ladies associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity without anyone being forced into something against their will (not always but mostly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Offered there is so a lot out there I have read my share. 1 book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was fairly relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not trigger orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, in contrast to pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Maybe this explains why I frequently struggle to find sex stories for women that can help with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anyone read this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly couple of women relate to her findings. This is simply because most women approach sex through their relationship with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their own sexual arousal via clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means found the pleasures of sexual fantasies.