How Women Enjoy Eroticism Via Sex Stories2233231
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not discover the ideas of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian ladies masturbate and study erotica. In reality, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often related with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so a lot female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between women.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body parts, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The lady is incidental. I appreciate homosexual erotica simply because I envision myself on the getting end of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica often consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity without anyone becoming forced into something against their will (not usually but mainly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so a lot out there I have study my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was fairly relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to find sex stories for ladies that can help with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anyone read this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly couple of women relate to her findings. This is simply because most women method sex through their relationship with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their personal sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.