How Women Enjoy Eroticism Via Sex Stories3442757
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not discover the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and study erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are frequently related with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between women.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male physique parts, male psyche and sexual acts involving males. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica simply because I envision myself on the receiving finish of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica frequently consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity with out anyone being forced into anything against their will (not usually but mainly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Offered there is so much out there I have study my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending pain. My conclusion is that the idea of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Maybe this explains why I frequently struggle to discover sex stories for women that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder although... what else does anybody read this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few ladies relate to her findings. This is because most women method sex via their relationship with their lover. They have no idea of enjoying their own sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means found the pleasures of sexual fantasies.