How Women Enjoy Eroticism Via Sex Stories9312571
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not discover the ideas of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex between ladies.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body components, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I appreciate homosexual erotica simply because I imagine myself on the receiving finish of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica frequently consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. Individuals just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity with out anybody becoming forced into something against their will (not usually but mostly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Offered there is so a lot out there I have read my share. 1 book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was fairly relieved when I ultimately tired of the by no means-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the idea of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to discover sex stories for ladies that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder although... what else does anyone read this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few women relate to her findings. This is simply because most women approach sex through their relationship with their lover. They have no idea of enjoying their own sexual arousal via clitoral stimulation. Equally they have never found the pleasures of sexual fantasies.