How Women Appreciate Eroticism Through Sex Stories4191853
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not discover the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and study erotica. In reality, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are frequently associated with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so a lot female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between ladies.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body components, male psyche and sexual acts involving males. The lady is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica simply because I envision myself on the receiving end of fellatio or anal sex, for instance.
Female erotica often includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do ladies associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity without anybody being forced into something against their will (not usually but mainly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so a lot out there I have read my share. 1 book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was fairly relieved when I ultimately tired of the never-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the idea of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, in contrast to pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I frequently struggle to find sex stories for ladies that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anybody study this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few ladies relate to her findings. This is simply because most ladies method sex through their partnership with their lover. They have no idea of enjoying their personal sexual arousal via clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.