How Women Enjoy Eroticism Via Sex Stories5355232
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not discover the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian ladies masturbate and study erotica. In reality, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are frequently related with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between ladies.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male physique components, male psyche and sexual acts involving males. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica simply because I envision myself on the receiving finish of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica frequently consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do ladies associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. Individuals just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity without anyone becoming forced into anything against their will (not usually but mainly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Offered there is so a lot out there I have study my share. 1 book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the idea of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, in contrast to pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to discover sex stories for women that can help with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anyone study this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few women relate to her findings. This is simply because most ladies approach sex through their partnership with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their own sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.